But it’s what we want, isn’t it? To be free from sin and live freely in God?
I think to do that we really need other people to help us in the fight. But that’s even less attractive. Oh, it’s easy to point out people’s sins and faults behind their backs either in private thought or with others. But we avoid confrontation like a plague. Or skirt around the issue, making really subtle remarks, hoping people catch on. But to very specifically go to someone and point out something in their life FOR THE PURPOSE of helping them fight sin in their life so that they can love and serve God better…it’s just plain scary. And seems wrong. And proud.
And if they were to do the same to us…? I know from experience that my hackles come up. My mind becomes filled with justification, why it is okay that I would do whatever it is, why I would feel that way, react that way. I don’t respond well.
But I wonder if we’re missing a key element. Are we developing relationships where such confrontation can come naturally? Where people know us well enough to see where we struggle with sin? Where we are aware of their areas of sin? We can meet in groups and have ‘deep’ discussions about what passages mean and how society works but how well are we doing at helping each other fight sin? On the ground level?
How do we even get there?